Janet Hardy

Janet W. Hardy is an internationally-known writer and educator on alternative sexuality and relationships. She is the author and co-author of 11 books about relationships and sexuality, including “The Ethical Slut” and “Girlfag: A Life Told In Sex and Musicals.” She has traveled the world as a speaker and teacher on topics ranging from ethical multi-partner relationships to erotic spanking and beyond. She has appeared in more documentary films, television shows and radio programs than she can count. Hardy’s writing has appeared in publications as various as The Sondheim Review, Clamor and EIDOS.

The Wonderful and Confusing World of Girlfags and Guydykes

Given the wide-ranging types of human sexuality, the binary gender model is no longer viable. My first boyfriend, in the eighth grade, turned out to be gay. So did my second, and my third. By the time — at 19 — I finally succeeded in hooking up with a straight man, I was so relieved to be with someone who was actually attracted to me that I married him. However, I continued to fantasize... Continue Reading

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